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Christopher Harding's avatar

Priceless.... the experience, the telling of it, and the mantra, just say, "Yes."

Reminds me of an exercise we often invite clients to play with: "What story are you creating today?"

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Rick Lewis's avatar

That should be a required daily question for leadership of any kind.

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Dana Allen's avatar

What a story!!! What a mantra! I would have loved to see you do that stunt.

Congratulations as well on 150 posts. 🎉🎉🥳

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thank you Dana. It's so fun to have stumbled on this old clip in my archives and to get to see it in a distant time. I'll keep the stories coming.

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Henny Hiemenz's avatar

Ditto to this!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

thanks Henny

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Matthew Gray's avatar

When Rick was on my show, I could feel this same energy… the sense that life keeps handing him absurd invitations and he keeps RSVP’ing with enthusiasm and a helmet.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

By the way, your invitation to your show and our conversation came with similar mood. I knew from the beginning we were going to have fun. Here's a link if anyone's interested. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yn1TeTTrawI&list=PL9rxlAu7AIGtC1AIiYaVZUJVihV4qO48n&index=3

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Matthew Gray's avatar

So, yeah, I wonder how many of our Substack family know that I give away lots of cash.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Yes. The orphan who won that million dollar prize draw sure was happy.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

ha ha. enthusiasm and a helmet. what a combo image for how we ought to be meeting life. thank you

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Paul Michael's avatar

Roll out the barrel….”know what I mean?”. You have great stories because you just say yes and put yourself out there.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thanks Paul. Yes, sometimes I do. And there are so many moments when I also hide in the corner. The need for some vigilance in the effort to just say yes never ends.

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Rachel Parker's avatar

Rick, I loved this. My husband was a huge fan of the Ernest movies growing up, so that reveal made me smile. But what really struck me (as it always does with your essays) is the sense that we’re uncovering yet another life you’ve lived.

As someone who grew up incredibly shy and cautious, I wholeheartedly agree with you: the serendipity that comes from saying yes to unexpected opportunities really can’t be overstated. Life has taken me down some surprising paths this way too, including the way I found my way to WriteHearted through that same quiet, intuitive yes (though admittedly less daring than running on a bass drum!). Thank you for this reminder that our most meaningful stories are often hiding in the moments we once thought were ordinary.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thank you Rachel. The quiet, intuitive yes. For people like us, there's no better variety. That's really fun your husband was an Ernest fan. There were lots of them. God bless Jim Varney.

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

…varney was good one, knowwhatimean vern?…did you do any other stunt work after that?…

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Rick Lewis's avatar

no other movie stunt work, just the things I tried in my street shows. the real stunt men we're doing some crazy things. The had a hydrolic machine on set that threw bodies across space

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Neural Foundry's avatar

This nails something that gets lost in alot of career advice - the best oppurtunities usually come packaged as something that looks slightly ridiculous or underwhelming at first. That production assistant's card being your entry point is perfect. I've seen this pattern play out in tech startups too where the founders who said yes to the weird side project ended up building the thing that mattered.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

: ) Or a lot ridiculous. We all want straight lines to move toward success, but it's more like a permanent experience of detours and weird side trips.

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Matt Cyr's avatar

Rick, this is amazing. I can’t believe this is how this scene came together. Makes me wonder at what point productions moved past full practical effects for a stunt like this. Great message with the “just say yes” message, some irony in there as Hollywood used to be much better at that than it is now.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Yes, there's no turning back the clock, though in so many ways I'd love to. For some reason your mention of Hollywood demonstrating

"just say yes" reminded me of the documentary about Jim Carrey - Jim and Andy: The Great Beyond about his portrayal of Andy Kaufman. There are so many examples of actors creating extraordinary performances based on this principle of full commitment.

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Larry Urish's avatar

First off, Rick, that clip is hilarious *and* we get to see your remarkable athletic skills. How you skipped over those flying linebackers' arms while on that bass drum is beyond comprehension.

And I'm glad I "just said yes" to joining Write Hearted, since, as you know, I was one of those folks who thought he had no stories to tell. Whoo-boy, was I ever wrong.

I suppose that every time we go with "just say yes," to a given situation or decision, we're actually "just saying yes" to life in general. And that's not a bad way to live.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Larry, I second the gladness of you saying yes to our group. The depth and insight of your own storytelling was just waiting for the right environment to find its legs. Case in point. https://thepositivepessimist.substack.com/p/the-gag-family-photo

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Larry Urish's avatar

Thank you, kind sir!

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Chris Wong's avatar

What!! I totally remember this scene

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Rick Lewis's avatar

No way. For real? You remember this movie and the scene?

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Chris Wong's avatar

I never saw the movie, but I definitely remember seeing this scene. It must have been a trailer or commercial.

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Liz Reitzig's avatar

What a fun story! 😂

Thanks for the judge to make stories and tell them!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Glad you got a kick out of it Liz. Thank you for saying so.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thank you Mo.

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