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Christopher Harding's avatar

Truly brilliant! So much to glean from this story and your reflections on it. Having grown up with a brother who became a black belt in karate and then went on to become equally well-skilled in Kung Fu, I heard similar reflections from him. Yes, he had become masterful at martial arts, but what changed his life were the lessons he learned from wise teachers who showed him the deeper truths hidden within the art itself.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thanks Chris. I'd venture to say it's more important that you find the right teacher than it is you find the right discipline or art to apprentice to. Though anything that requires having to work with and through the body is going be grounded in a lot of useful learning.

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Christopher Harding's avatar

Truly.

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Mak's avatar

That story was masterfully told. I usually struggle to read stories online which are more than 500, but this had my full attention.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Wohoo! I doubled your usual word limit! ha ha. Thank you for the appreciation Mak.

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Kathy Ayers's avatar

Cannot even say how much I love this story. It unfolded as a vivid, entertaining yet transcendent movie scene. And before Karate Kid!

What a huge life lesson by an insightful teacher.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thanks Kathy. I appreciate your feedback on it.

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CansaFis Foote's avatar

…be the board…see the board…completely see through the board…break the board…break even more boards…surf those boards…this reminds me oh how I learned to snowboard (was brought to the top of a mountain and my teacher pointed down and said go there)…how many lessons do you think you learn in a day?

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Trying to unlearn old lessons faster than adding new ones.

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Genie Joseph's avatar

Awesome. Hits hard!!! Well done!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thanks for the help with this one Genie.

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Simon Emslie's avatar

One of your best stories, Rick! Did you carry on going to karate class after that?

Also, have you got time to pop round to mine? There’s a pile of wood I need to chop up.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

No, not sure why I wasn't compelled to continue with Karate. My black and blue hand perhaps? Re your woodpile, I'd love to come by and stare at it with you over a glass of wine.

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Bob Gilbreath's avatar

It's amazing how a handful of learning experiences far outside of a traditional classroom/teacher situation are the most powerful..

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Which is why your whole context in relationship to business is so useful and necessary, because business is where real things happen in the world, and participating in that domain is rich with growth.

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Michelle Marie Engelman Berns's avatar

“And on we go, with our life in our pockets, tethered to the Great future self that already is.”

From a poem I wrote that seems to dovetail this piece.

I really enjoy your writing!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

That's a beautiful line Michelle. And thank you.

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James Bailey's avatar

“So many problems are not solved, but rather dissolved when they’re seen in a broader context.”

Thank you 🙏. I will keep this in mind the rest of my life Rick.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thanks James

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Alex Michael's avatar

Well done man. I've always loved the technique of board-breaking as a metaphor, and I've tried to write about it in the past without much success. You'll illustrated it beautifully here and brought it to life. Awesome stuff.

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Rick Lewis's avatar

Thank you Alex

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Larry Urish's avatar

I agree with Chris. Brilliant, indeed. "Problems are often not solved at the level of the problem itself, but through connecting to a principle or truth beyond the apparent issue." And you then give a few very good examples.

By the way, I've tried to break boards when I studied tae kwon do for a few years. I must've done something wrong, since it hurt like hell even when the board broke!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

ha ha, I thought this was a very niche and off-the-beaten-path experience, but it seems like half the people I know who have read this have had an experience with board breaking, or the attempt!

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